Ali MacGraw: The Rise, Fall, and Resilience of a Hollywood Icon

Ali MacGraw became a Hollywood superstar overnight. But just as quickly as she rose to fame, she disappeared from show business altogether.

Today, the 85-year-old actress has settled down in a remote and tiny town, and she’s aging gracefully with her grey hair.

Early Life and Artistic Heritage

Ali MacGraw, born Elizabeth Alice MacGraw on April 1, 1939, in Pound Ridge, New York, grew up in an environment rich in art yet fraught with personal challenges. Her mother Frances was an artist who had worked at a school in Paris and later in New York, while her father Richard also pursued fine arts. However, Richard’s early trauma from a difficult childhood in an orphanage and his experiences after escaping at age 16 to go to sea would profoundly influence the family dynamic.

Ali would later reflect on her father’s lifelong struggle with anger and forgiveness, describing his temperament as shaped by early abandonment and hardship. “Daddy was frightened and really, really angry. He never forgave his real parents for giving him up,” she revealed, noting how he spent adulthood “suppressing the rage that covered all his hurt.”

A Childhood Marked by Scarcity and Resilience

Growing up with her brother Richard Jr., Ali experienced financial hardship. The family lived in humble circumstances on a Pound Ridge wilderness preserve, sharing a house without doors, bathroom, or kitchen privacy with an elderly couple. Frances supported the family with commercial-art commissions, while Richard struggled to sell his work, leading to frustration and at times, domestic turbulence—particularly affecting Ali’s brother.

Despite these hardships, Ali benefited from her parents’ artistic backgrounds and developed her own passion for creativity. She earned a scholarship to Rosemary Hall, a prestigious prep school, and went on to Wellesley College in Massachusetts, a foundation that would influence her aesthetic sensibilities and later career choices.

Entry into the World of Fashion

At 22, Ali moved to New York, taking an assistant editor position at Harper’s Bazaar, immersing herself in the world of high fashion and publication. She soon worked under the iconic fashion editor Diana Vreeland, who hired her to do “anything and everything”—a role reminiscent of that in The Devil Wears Prada.

Fashion photographer Melvin Sokolsky soon recognized Ali’s photogenic beauty, encouraging her transition from behind the scenes to modeling and styling. Her dedication and work ethic quickly set her apart. Ruth Ansel, former art director at Vanity Fair and Harper’s Bazaar, praised Ali’s commitment, recalling, “Ali would come in at eight a.m., and many times I’d come back at one in the morning and she would still be doing things for the next day.”

Ali launched into modeling, gracing numerous magazine covers and television ads. Her poise and appearance landed her high-profile opportunities, but modeling’s limitations and an unsettling encounter with artist Salvador Dali redirected her ambitions toward acting.

Ali MacGraw’s Sudden Rise in Hollywood

Ali transitioned into film with an uninhibited approach, lacking formal training but captivating audiences with her natural talent and classic beauty. After a small role in A Lovely Way to Die (1968), she starred in the 1969 film Goodbye, Columbus. Her emotionally resonant performance earned her a Golden Globe for Most Promising Newcomer—Female.

In 1970, MacGraw’s stardom skyrocketed when she starred as Jenny in the romantic drama Love Story alongside Ryan O’Neal. Deeply moved by the script, MacGraw pursued the role, catching the attention of producer Robert Evans. The film became the top-grossing movie in the U.S. that year and was, at its release, among the six highest-grossing films in U.S. and Canadian history.

Award Recognition and Personal Life in the Spotlight

Love Story delivered critical acclaim and commercial success, earning MacGraw an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress and a second Golden Globe for Best Actress in a Motion Picture—Drama. Her on-screen chemistry with Ryan O’Neal further cemented her as a symbol of cinematic romance.

MacGraw’s off-screen life became equally newsworthy when she married Robert Evans, the influential head of Paramount Pictures. Their marriage garnered significant media attention—especially after the birth of their son, Josh Evans, in 1971.

However, their high-profile union ended when MacGraw began an affair with actor Steve McQueen, her co-star in The Getaway. She openly described being “obsessed” with McQueen, remarking, “I looked in those blue eyes, and my knees started knocking.”

The Turbulent Years: Steve McQueen and Life Outside Hollywood

Life with Steve McQueen brought both passion and challenges. McQueen’s own troubled upbringing—marked by neglect and distrust—manifested in controlling behaviors. He disliked that MacGraw had an independent career and placed expectations on her home life that she found stifling, such as forbidding her from attending art classes or continuing her own professional pursuits.

Ultimately, their marriage ended in divorce in 1978, to which Ali agreed without contesting the prenuptial agreement. These years were marked by disappointment; she noted in interviews how difficult the entertainment industry was for women, especially as they aged, encountering pressures from both Hollywood and media.

She stepped away from film for a period, dealing with personal demons and the sense of a fading career. At one point, substance abuse clouded her professional commitments, leading her to show up intoxicated on the set of the film Convoy (1978)—a wake-up call that prompted her to quit drugs and reevaluate her life.

Challenges in the Spotlight and Transition to New Creative Avenues

Returning to Hollywood in the late 1970s and early 1980s, MacGraw encountered an industry with little room for women over 40, saying, “I don’t think there’s a woman over 40 who’s ever been conspicuously in the spotlight who doesn’t get sick of the kind of questioning the media lays on you, the fashion industry, all of it. It’s cruel.”

Her subsequent film appearances in Players (1979) and Just Tell Me What You Want (1980) met with lukewarm reception, and she shifted her attention to interior design. Nevertheless, she appeared in notable television projects such as The Winds of War (1983) and China Rose (1985).

The sense of professional decline and personal struggles with loneliness and alcohol led her to the Betty Ford Clinic in 1986. MacGraw credits therapy with helping her overcome these challenges and emerge stronger for herself and her son, Josh.

Family Tragedies and New Beginnings

In 1993, a wildfire destroyed her home in California, prompting Ali to relocate to Tesuque, a village near Santa Fe, New Mexico. Here, she found solace and a sense of belonging outside of Hollywood’s glare. Immersing herself in community work, MacGraw became a volunteer at the Santa Fe International Folk Art Market and supported various local initiatives.

Now regarded by neighbors more as a fellow resident than a former movie star, she set about using her skills for community benefit. She also continued to explore creative pursuits, reuniting with former co-star Ryan O’Neal in the Broadway adaptation of Festen in 2006 and producing popular yoga videos, which contributed to her renewed balanced lifestyle.

In interviews, such as one with the Herald-Tribune in 2019, MacGraw emphasized her ongoing curiosity and openness to new adventures: “One of the lucky things for someone my age is that I’m open and curious. There’s not just one thing I love to do and feel bereft if I can’t. But I know that I’m not happy when I’m not doing something creative.”

Legacy and Influence: The Next Generation

While Ali MacGraw has largely stepped away from public life, her legacy continues through her son, Josh Evans. Born in January 1971 to MacGraw and Evans, Josh grew up immersed in show business but initially did not aspire to be an actor. Nevertheless, his childhood proximity to Hollywood shaped his ambitions.

His pivotal break came when he met director Oliver Stone and landed a role in Born on the Fourth of July (1989) with Tom Cruise. Reflecting on the experience, Josh remarked on the electrifying atmosphere on set and the doors it opened for his career as both actor and director.

Josh Evans: Actor, Director, and Family Man

Josh Evans built a substantial resume with acting roles in films like The Doors (1991) and later established himself as a director, including having Michael Madsen star in his film Death in the Desert (2015). Despite his achievements, Josh has expressed a preference for work behind the camera, driven more by a passion for storytelling than a desire for on-screen visibility.

In his personal life, Josh has been married twice, welcoming a son, Jackson, with musician Roxy Saint. Ali MacGraw delights in her role as a grandmother, saying, “He’s so wonderful… He’s my favorite human being on the planet, and he goes out with a girl I’m nuts about. Their relationship is so much about, among other things, friendship and respect.”

Enduring Legacy and Cultural Impact

Ali MacGraw’s story illustrates the volatile nature of fame—and the potential for life beyond its confines. Although her tenure as a Hollywood superstar was brief, her performances, particularly in Love Story, continue to resonate. Her willingness to grapple with adversity, pursue creativity in various forms, and find fulfillment outside the industry offers valuable lessons about resilience and reinvention.

Her advocacy for animal rights, involvement in community and cultural initiatives, and the successful career of her son, Josh Evans, all underscore the enduring impact of her life and spirit. Ali MacGraw’s ongoing journey serves as an inspiration—demonstrating that it is never too late to forge new paths and seek deeper meaning, regardless of past triumphs or setbacks.

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